6 Ways to Nurture Each Child - FREE Download

Parenting the best way for EACH of your children.

Stereotyping and making blanket statements are never helpful.

Being aware that how we fit into our families affect our identities is very helpful!

This handy summary includes:

  • Typical traits,
  • Parenting styles,
  • and 6 ways to best Nurture EACH of our children.

This summary can increase your understanding of how your children might develop ideas about their identities, based on their interpretations of how they fit into your family. Children are always making decisions and forming beliefs about themselves, others and their world, and these decisions are based on their interpretation of their life experiences.

I often hear parents say: My children couldn't be more different! Here's why:
Children compare themselves to their siblings. If a brother or sister is doing well in a certain area, in order for them to thrive, they have to decide on one of the following options:
  • To become good at something completely different.
  • To compete and try and be just as good or better at the same thing
  • To be rebellious / revengeful
  • To give up because they don't think they can do better or be better at anything else.

More often than not, children choose to simply take a different route from what they perceive their brother / sister is already good at, in order to get YOUR ATTENTION!

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Meet Eloise

Eloise Grobbelaar
Eloise Grobbelaar

I grew up in South Africa and now live in the UK. I have taught children of all ages and over the last two decades I have also taught children with behavioural and emotional needs. I have always been very interested in behaviour and the supporting neuro-science and psychology.

Through my studies and management roles in these areas, I have learnt that by being proactive and equipping children, there is less need for reacting to unwanted behaviours. More importantly, I have learnt that children want to do well, and just like any other skill, children can develop their emotional intelligence if given the support to do so.

Just as my two children are growing, a deep necessity is growing in me, to not just be a good parent, but to make sure that I'm equipping them to the best of my ability. My hope is for them to become adults who will impact positively on their world. I continue to learn every day!

BSC (Hon), PGCE, UCert ASD, CPDPE, Relax Kids Coach and Certified MHFA

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